Telling the truth in church

So, we're done with yet another church. Why is that? Isn't that sad? It makes us sad. And the thing that gets me the most, is other church people telling me, "Don't hate the church because of the people. There are good and bad people at every church." I KNOW that. But, it seems, when there are enough people who stymie change, then we have to move on. When there are enough people, good and bad, who hold back a church and smother the people who want the church to move forward, then it's over. Walk away and don't look back. Keep up with your friends, but walk away from the disease and the hurt.
Are we going to find a new church? I don't know. Maybe. We're ok with 'taking a break' for now.
Why can't church people just be honest? Why can't we have an open discussion about things (life)? *sigh*
I still the Lord, I still seek Him. I just can't find Him in a church right now. And I honestly, truly believe that He's ok with that.